@RunDevilRun007
Fine. Wallow in sadness. I will be busy having some hope in my life. And that gets me a lot more than I deserve.
sees how sad the comments have become
Ah, that. Sometimes I wondered what that might be like, but I doubt it’s worth it.
you guys are depressing :(
@LanceOmikron
Same. I’ve considered going to extreme measures to lose all romantic interest in people.You too, huh? Yeah, for a long time I thought “If I could just convince myself that I’m romantically worthless and that relationships will never happen for me, then I’ll be able to lose all interest in love and romance and be able to get on with my life in peace”.I tried that for about seven years. Beginning this year, I’ve decided that it doesn’t work. Not only did it not remove my romantic feelings, but it had absolutely killed my self-esteem and made me feel terrible. So, I decided that I would stop putting myself down and think of myself more positively. Mind you, I still don’t see myself getting into a relationship, and I absolutely abhor the idea of going on dates with random people. But I don’t need to put myself down to justify that decision.Whatever your decisions are regarding your romantic life, you don’t need to beat yourself up about it. All that does is make you feel even worse and prevent you from moving on.
@LanceOmikron
Same. I’ve considered going to extreme measures to lose all romantic interest in people.
@RunDevilRun007
Honestly, it’s two vastly different experiences with women; don’t try to convert one another; just seek to understand, and leave it at that. And if you can’t understand it, well… it might be better that way, too.
@RunDevilRun007
I said no to a girl. Several times. Each time, it leaves you with a new conscious that eats at you. It says “the f*ck dude? She went fishing, get caught upon her hook!”, but I ignored it. Then one day, this dude walks up to me. He says “Hey-uh I have a friend who would like your number”. Right as I grab his notepad, another dude walks up to me. He says “Hey, my sister finds you attractive and she’d like your phone number. She’s the girl over there in the pink dress”. At that moment, I immediately respond with “Sorry, I’m not interested in having a relationship. No hard feelings, I’m just not interested”. I handed back the notepad, and went back to getting my lunch. One week later, I wake up in the middle of the night after having the weirdest dream. I get these dreams that seem so real, and sometimes actually happen like déjà vu, but this one never came true. I don’t remember much, except for this overwhelming feeling of happiness. It was so overwhelming, that I got overstimulated. By happieness. That’s never happened to me. Ever since then, I get random moments where I feel that I should be lonely dispite not actually being lonely.The moral is: Don’t say no to a girl. It leaves you feeling inhuman.
@RunDevilRun007
Bro. Don’t loose all hope. Be like me, and wait for a girl to ask you out. Due to the statistics of a girl asking a guy out, that means that the girl that wants you (rather than the other way around) is actually more likely to be loyal. Because it’s her who started it, so why would she destroy what she built? She’d be less likely to lie. She’d be more likely to stay. She’d be one of the more rare loyal types. And, with time and hard work on her half, she just might get down on one knee and ask the big question. But here’s the twist. A question as big as “Will you marry me”… Would you turn her down?
@RunDevilRun007
I’ve done a lot of thinking about this subject over the past several years.
