Ok so I am a 23M who considers himself bi. A huge turn on for me is when a girl gets turned on by a bi guy. Now I would never hook up with a guy for a relationship but I would get naughty with one anytime I am in the mood [all the time]. The girls I want to be with should be bi and into a bit of male bi action as well as female bi action with me and love it just as much as I do. Even if its talking about it which I like too, is a turn on for me.

 

Bi men are the hot! I am lucky my husband is bi so now we have a boyfriend. I am bi too so if ever my boyfriend gets a chick, I will be the happiest fat bitch on the planet.

 

I'm a bisexual female. The thought of a man with another man arouses me. I've even been in threesomes when not in a committed relationship. However, I am a monogamous person with people I care about a lot. =S

 

Thats what i am takin about! Awsome.

 

I understand what your saying about when your in a relationship. I guess when it comes to that, so no one feels offensive, the new partner must be a true nobody to both sides and must be chosen to each others likings so its real fun to both.

 

That would probably be best. A time or two I was interested in one of the two in the threesome and both of them were more interested in each other. It made for an awkward time after clothes were reapplied.

 

See thats what I wouldnt want to happen, my girl get feelings for the new member. Even though we all would be bi that thought never leaves my mind.

 

Many women have a tendency to become somewhat attached to their partners. With me there was a decided lack of communication with each party. I have a feeling that more communication would have decreased the post-coital confusion.

 

That is something I am trying to avoid in my two relationships. I am going to treat the two men equally and vice-versa. The problem will come if there is a second female thrown in because then I may become territorial. I have a low self-esteem and another woman could make me feel like less of a person but I am going to try and keep an open heart.

 

The bad part in my situation was that every threesome I was in involved this one woman and a different man. I was amazingly in love with this woman, but she remained (and still does remain) insistently straight. She is a very dynamic personality so every time we ended up in a threesome the man we were currently with ended up drawn to her... to the near complete exclusion of me.

That, added to my abysmal self-esteem, usually ended up throwing me into a fit of depression. She and I, being amazingly good friends, have decided to never have threesomes together. It majorly interferes with my "muchness."

 

Yeah, I worry that will happen to me too. On the flip side, every other guy (or girl) until this last one wanted only me and not my husband. I kept breaking it off with them because I am not leaving my husband for anyone. Our boyfriend knows the rule and he said he will make the same rule if he finds a girl... that my husband and me come first and have to be loved equally. He told me not to worry because he doubts it would seriously happen. I asked if he would leave us for someone and he said he wouldn't, he wants children with me and to grow old with us... then said it's a shame I can't legally have 2 husbands.

I respect anyone who can be monogamous because I know I can't. I tried for years as did my husband and rather than hurting each other, we redefined our marriage. Good luck to you and the one you are with.:rose:

 

Ok I can understand this..Yes it is a turn on...All my long term relationships have been with women except for 2...
As far as your woman being turned on and bi..?? Well I think you should not leave out the ones who are turned on by it but are not bi themselfs.
My Ex-Wife who was not bi would get so wet and horny that the juices would literally run down her thighs...This would happen everytime I would talk to her and tell her how I was fucked by one of the guys or all the guys from my past..Helping her visualize it...How much I enjoy her fucking me with toys while sucking my cock..How I love her strap-on...How I need her...She would fuck me so good she curled my toes and would have me trembling...And she would have 2 or more good orgasms of her own doing this...Then after I recovered I would fuck her to another...And actually watching me with another man...Whole different story...LOL....Best Wishes...:excited:

 

I'm very happy for the three of you. I have considered being in a poly-amorous relationship. However, the men in those situations just seemed interested in collecting a harem of women who did not interact. Not happening with this one, thanks!

Thanks so much, Furred! I'm not entirely sure how long this one will last, but we get on well enough.

 

Yeah I get you. Its not really a must have for her to be bi, but a big plus. And yeah strap-on sex is so hot. I love the feeling of being controlled and someones slave.

 

Yeah, I had an ex like that. My big thing is Honesty. If you even flirt, then fess up because I don't like finding out second hand. He was cheating on me and had promised to screw all these girls who are my friends with out telling me or them what was going on. I caught on when one was gushing about her new boyfriend and he happened to been MY new boyfriend. I confronted him and he gave me a cock and bull story about how I said it was an open relationship and he has every right to do what he wants but he was sorry. I forgave him, telling him to just be honest, that I can't get mad if I know. Well... he was incapable of honesty and told me he needed time to think. I considered it over then, he was just too immature for what I wanted. I have a whole slew of exes that follow the same basic story so he wasn't the first. The new one, he is really reserved and for a year has been everything I wanted and more. We just have to meet up face to face to make sure all what we think we feel is real.

 

That sounds like an absolutely horrendous experience. I would have been livid, too. I'm glad this newest person seems to be working out. I hope all is real. <3

 

my wife encourages my bi ways. not only do i get real turned on when sucking cock in front of her, the wife loves watching me suck on hard dicked guys when ever we gat the chance. she calls me her cock sucking boy and tells me how much she loves seeing me suck and swallow a mans load down my throat.