Look i live with a jealous spouse and controlling and it's fucking exhausting to deal with. And yes, it makes me want to run away. It makes me want to do bad things. It drives a person away. It makes you feel like a prisoner in a jail cell. And the simple fact is where there is a will there is a way. So if she wants to see someone or have meaningless sex she could find a way. No matter how much you try to control her you can't stop it. The best thing you can do is let her do as she wishes and go if she would like to go. Maybe she honestly is faithful and not planning nothing bad.

But the only way handcuffs are sexy is when your strapped naked to a bed and feeling pleasure. But handcuffs just because you don't trust her is not pleasurable to her. Let her live her life!!!

 

His money is of great importance to her true. But money does not mean he has power over her. Work is to support his spouse not to control her. So fuck yes....if she wants to go on a trip she should do just that!!!!!

 

Confidence and trust is sexy in a man!!! Lol

 

Where is the love button!!!!

 

I do not understand why they cannot talk to ech other. Afterall it is just sex, set out a few rules for each other and trust each other. Always remember what is good for the goose is good for the gander

Lighten up!

thinskin

 

Seriously? You can seriously post that and see absolutely nothing wrong with it?

First off and most importantly.....What drunken orgy, and who says people get "paired off"? That is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. Imaginations running wild fearing what they themselves might do of which I have still not received an answer as to what he would do past removing all temptation via abstinence from the situation....and that alone, says a LOT.

So he joins a sexually based site months ago, and fears her cheating......Clearly you were so anxious to try and put me in my place that you missed the entire gist of it. That being, she can cheat any time. Here, there, people doing this or that, it is all up to her.....This trip means nothing as to whether she will cheat or not in that if she was going to do so she would have.

You like the OP and others seem to be under the impression that his wife is some weak willed slut who all it takes is someone else doing something and a couple of drinks and she'll jump right in. I on the other hand having no knowledge of this person instead grant her the benefit of doubt knowing that some extreme situation doesn't make someone cheat....their nature does.....and more so fears of what they might do are not spawned from what they have done, yet what we see inside of ourselves.

The OP is here, she is not. The OP is chatting with strangers about sexually based things, and as far as we know, she is not....He cannot even answer the most basic of questions being "what would you do when faced with such".....and yet you all want to put the hammer down on her, "telling" her "no, I do not allow it!

Are you fucking joking?

Worse still........We have a whole slew of people here who speak of their antics, their fantasies, support people sneaking behind their spouses back, speak of fucking others when their spouses do or can not.....and they want to become all righteous?

Who do you people think you are fooling......I can see right to your soul, and it's fearful of what it sees in you......not your spouses.

Hush....an alias

 

When your with someone and all your insecurities just melt away......then you know your truly happy. Until then you just think or hope your happy.

 

Good judgement comes from experience.
Experience comes from bad judgement.

 

HA!!! You're making this up.
Many of us do not have souls.

 

thank you.

 

You probably have a couple of long horns on you.

 

Shut up all you sick heads . Stop writing stupidities. Liking porn and being in a porn forum doesn't necessarily mean a person is crazy. Think about it before you give your opinion. If you want to fuck everyone around then don't marry. You better look for fucking partners.

 

How is it you just disproved your own statement?

Hush....an alias

 

I didn't. I'm just telling the sick heads to think before they give advise because the person you're giving it to may be a normal human being. Normal and married people also enjoy porn.

 

Who said he wasn't normal....In fact, sadly very normal.

Hush....an alias

 

Being normal is not sad. The guy was sincerely asking for advise and most people tell him to let her go to that fucking, sucking, showing, sexing spree because it's her right to do it. You know that's not a good thing if you're married cause you're not by yourself anymore. It's not like she's going to have dinner with her bestie. It's a whole damn week with a half man half women group. It's not easy to resist when you see everybody having fun so better don't have the temptation.

 

What's sad and typical is the jealousy.......and again, what would go on there is thus far all in YOUR imagination, not hers......and if YOU can't resist such things, then the weakness is within you, not her.

You're not going to win this one.....Perhaps it is time to quit arguing it.

Hush....an alias

 

Im not trying to win anything. Not on people who think they know everything. People like you always find an excuse. If the wife goes on the trip and dump the guy later, you'll say it was because he was insecure and never treated her the right way. And yes, you're right,, I'm quitting right now on this nonsense discussion.

 

Just my two cents...

The husband and wife have a vacation planned..airplane tickets, hotel, ect.
Now they can't go because his job is sending him out of the country (abroad) for over a month..
Meaning your airline ticket is paid for, your hotel, your food, and your expences are paid for.
And you are getting paid to be there.
The husband and wife have a vacation planned.

The reason your wife told you about her cowokers is because you told your wife NO.
She can't visit on her holiday for five days.
You went into detail (real or imagined) about what her coworkers will do in five daysand you are oddly silent about what you are gonna do in over a month..all we know is your wife can't visit..all is will cost is the price of an airline ticket.
So, who you going with? Are any coworkers going? Is there going to be drinking? Nudity?
Are you trustworthy?
You say she can not go with her coworkers because something might happen to jepardize your marriage,
She can not visit you, so if you can not trust your wife, how is she suppose to trust you?

 

I'm surprised you have to ask Sweetpassion...